10 Great Dating Ideas to Woo Any Woman

Do you need free dating women ideas?  In fact, many of the most romantic dates you can take your lady out on won’t cost you a dime.  This article will show you 10 free dating women options that give you not cost dates that will still impress the ladies.  

1. What is one of a woman’s most persistent romantic fantasies?  That would have to be a long walk on a moonlit beach.  In personal ad after personal ad, you see this wish appear.  So, why not make it a part of your free dating women repartee?  She will be far more impressed than if you took her to a fancy French restaurant?
2. If you are doing a daytime date, consider going on a bike ride together.  Ride for a while.  Stop and have a picnic.  Then ride home.  The exercise will do you wonders and there’s a sense of having shared space without having to fill it with words.

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9 steps to win the heart of a girl you like

Ever wondered why some guys are such charmers? They seem to win the affection of all the girls all the time. You can be that guy too, as long as you understand what it takes to win a girl’s heart.

Use these 9 steps on how to win a girl’s heart, and you’ll surely be on your way to impressing the girl you like effortlessly.

#1 Be a great guy. Let’s face it, if you want to date a great girl who’s desired by several guys, you need to be a great guy too.

Here’s a great test to find out if you’re in the big league of guys. When you walk into a room full of guys, do you feel like you’re the coolest cat in the room? Or do you look at a few other guys in awe because they seem so much more awesome?

If you think another guy is cooler, or if you admire a few qualities about another guy you meet, it only means you’re lacking that quality yourself in comparison with that guy. Each time you see a guy who seems *cooler* than you, work on that particular trait so you can get better at it over time. It’s the safest way to improve your own personality in the direction you really want.

#2 Talk to her. Make her feel special when she’s around you. It doesn’t matter if there are several other guys who are trying to get her attention. All that matters is what you’re doing to win her heart. Talk to her warmly when you bump into her, and let her know that you’re happy to see her. 

#3 Flirt with her. Flirting with a girl whose heart you’re trying to win is a subtle art. You can either make it obvious that you’re flirting with her, or you can be discreet and subtle. Flirt with her discreetly to begin with, and if she reciprocates by flirting back, you can start to get more obvious.

If you want to flirt with her, try to get some alone time with her whenever you can, and avoid flirting with her when there are others around. Flirting with her when her friends are around will make your flirty lines seem like a joke. Save the compliments and the smooth talking for private conversations.

#4 Don’t be clouded by emotions. You know you like her, but she doesn’t know it yet. If you feel like your chances are slipping or there’s no reciprocation from her end, don’t get reckless. Most guys think with their heart and end up professing their love for a girl when she’s just not interested in dating them. Don’t be that guy. Just make sure you stay out of the friend zone, and avoid telling her that you like her unless you know she likes you already.

#5 Don’t be threatened by the competition. Always think twice before you say something to her, especially if it’s not something pleasant or if it’s about another guy. If she’s been ignoring your calls, or if she gives all her attention to another guy in the cafeteria, don’t behave like a little brat and sulk in the corner. And most importantly, don’t confront her about it. She doesn’t owe you any explanations. Remember, winning her heart is a challenge, and every now and then, you’ll have to deal with other guys who want to impress her.

#6 Occupy her thoughts at night. The night time is the best time to build the intimacy. Start off by texting her now and then in the evenings, and work your way to calling her at night occasionally. Talk about things that interest her, and over time, she’ll warm up to you and even look forward to talking to you every night.

If you know another guy who calls this girl often, call her half an hour earlier and try to create an interesting conversation. If she likes talking to you, she’ll probably disconnect the other guy’s call if she’s having a great conversation with you.

#7 Open up to her. The best way to build a bond with the girl you like is by building a secret relationship that no one else knows about. By flirting with her only when it’s just the both of you and by talking to each other late at night, it would be a secret flirty affair only the two of you know about, and that would make the whole relationship so much more exciting and mysterious.

Now take that to the next level. When you’re talking to this girl late at night, tell her a few of your secrets that not many people know about, preferably about your past relationships *both of you will end up talking about sex within a few nights* or a few trivial difficulties you’re having with someone she doesn’t know about *she’ll give you advise on how to deal with that person, and would want an update every night*.

The more she knows about your personal details, the more easily she’ll start talking about her own secrets. And once she starts doing that, she’ll start to feel closer to you, and think about you often too. As long as you avoid talking about something sad or gloomy, she’ll always be excited to stretch the conversation with you. 

#8 Win over her friends. If you do know most of her friends, try to be nice to them. This isn’t really necessary, but it can help you score brownie points if she ever does discuss about you with her friends.

So does the girl whose heart you’re trying to win have a best friend? If she does have a best friend, then that’s the girl you need to please. Be nice to her best friend and get friendly with her too. And when her best friend becomes a good friend of yours, *accidentally* slip the word out that you like the girl. As long as you’ve impressed her best friend, she’ll turn into your evangelist and convince the girl you like to start dating you because you’re such an awesome catch!

#9 Get her addicted to you. Unless you know she’s crazy about you already, don’t tell her you’ve fallen for her. Focus on having a good time with her, but at the same time, don’t try too hard to impress her. When you make it obvious that you’re trying to win her heart by buying her flowers or saying something romantic, you kill the mystery. Let her wonder about what you think of her. Compliment her, tell her you miss not having her around, and even tell her that you wish she was with you, but don’t tell her you like her just yet. 

And once you know that she’s definitely into you and likes you back, tell her what’s on your mind. 

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Five Things That Tell If A Woman Is Interested In You

One: Attention

When you are talking with her, does she linger? By linger, I mean, does she hang around long after you have run out of clever things to say? If a woman isn't interested in you, she will make up any manner of excuses or find real reasons for parting company. So if she lingers, you can use that as an opening to talking more, and then finding out if she's really interested in you. Does she ask questions about you, or does she just talk about things in general. Because if she asks about you then she's definitely interested in you. And it's a bad sign to think that she's interested in you if she's always busy talking about something else, because later on in the relationship, you will realize that yes, she was interested, but not in you! Maybe in what you know about, or the things you talked about, but if the questions aren't designed to get to know you better, than she isn't interested in knowing you better! And if her questions don't allow you to get to know her better either, then what's the point? You might as well go read a book instead.

Two: Direction

This may seem similar to some of the communications in number one, but it is not. The question is this. Is her conversation with you centered around something other than you, and other than her? In other words, when she talks about things, does she talk about things and not about people? You and her kinds of things, not just things about other people. If she does talk about you two, then that's the sign you are looking for. But if she just talks about other people, and never really gets around to talking about you, then it's obvious what's she's interested in: not you. And there's nothing wrong about this at all! There are six billion people on the planet and at least three billion are of the necessary sex, (or more depending upon your preferences!) for dating you. Move on, Dude, because at this point you may need to. So what if she does talk about you and about her? That's not only the sign you have been looking for, but as well, appreciate her for her interest. There are so many aspects of relationship that both men and women just don't pay attention to, because they are too worried about their own self-image. Get out of your head, guys, and look over at this delightful person who is talking with you. Wow! Isn't that great! And if you say she isn't delightful, then what the heck are you trying to pursue her for? Knock off the bull and admit it. She's great. And by the way, so are you.

Three: Movement

Is she always trying to move away from you? In other words, do you get the feeling that she's always trying to put just a little more room between your body and her body than you would like to have there? Not a good sign. Back off. Relax. Let her come toward you, if she's going to. If not, then you know. You will know whether she's interested enough in you to actually come toward you physically or not. If not, great! Move on. If so, then be easy about it. Let her lean in toward you and then enjoy basking in her essence. The hot and heavy stuff is for either couples who know right away exactly what they want, or for couples who have been together for a while. If you're not in either of those categories, then the best advice is to back off a bit, wait, and rather than "seeing what happens" instead, pay attention to what's happening.

Four: Continuance

Does she make any attempt at all to continue the conversation on her own? This is critical. You can't make all the moves. If she's not making any, then maybe she doesn't want to. You want to, and you're out there trying, but if she isn't doing the same, to any degree, then it may be time to move on. Or, you may need to just back off and wait for a bit, and see what she does. Or you could so something outrageously dangerous and actually ask her. "Hey, are you interested in me? How do you feel about us? Where would you like to see us going?" And then? Again, do something radically dangerous and when she answers you, and actually listen to her. You just may score more points this way than any other. In fact, if you just listen to her, really listen, that "only friends" thing may just turn out to be more than friends.

Five: Chemistry

Ask yourself "is there chemistry between us?" You can feel this. It isn't rocket science. And, you can feel if she's feeling it too. Look at her face. Is she smiling? Use your intuition here, guys, what's going on with her? You have to let go and lighten up in order to actually remove yourself from all that you are feeling for a brief moment, and then intuit what she's feeling. And if you can't do that? Well, then you're going to have to ask. Ask her. "How are you feeling right now?" And depending upon the situation, she may or may not answer you in a way that reveals all that much, because if you've been demanding as to her commitment, and she's just not ready right now, she's going to go for the "nice" touch, and that may mean not communicating entirely.

And this is the main point of all of this. Communication will get you either into or out of a relationship, but it has to be honest communication. People are only hurt when someone else holds back the truth, or doesn't say what they are really feeling, and that happens with both guys and girls. Speak it. What is really going on with you and what do you really want? Give the person you are interested in some space to figure out their responses regarding how they feel, for their answers to show up in. Maybe when she says "I don't know" she really doesn't. Not believing her isn't going to help. Ask yourself then, "Do I really want to be with someone who truly doesn't know how they feel about me, even after we've been talking for a while?" Who would want that? But so many of us pursue women who aren't interested in us, as if it was a battle/conquest thing, a challenge to "get" someone. But we don't ever "get" anyone. Either they come to us as willing and powerful partners, or it's something else. And tell the truth guys, haven't you had enough of "something else?" I know I have!

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