How To Make A Man Want No One Else But You

Are you one of those pretty faces who feel desperate because you seem to score zero when it comes to dating? Sure, you may be dating a good looking man but is he really crazy about you? Is he willing to give up everything just to be with you? Do you often wonder how you can make him go extremely crazy for you?
Read the following tips to discover exactly what you can do in order to make him go super crazy for you...

Carry yourself with confidence.
It's not all about having a pretty face. You'd still appear bland if you're pretty yet you're so unsure of yourself. Even though you're a little on the fat side, don't fret. The dating game is all about knowing how to walk the walk and talk the talk!

Show the genuine you.
A man can see through your fake qualities in just a short period of time so don't let him see your phoniness. Instead, show from the onset who you truly are and this guy will surely appreciate you for it.

Take care of yourself.
This is the modern times - women are supposed to know how to take care of themselves. You have to remember that you are more attractive to a guy when he sees that you're financially able. This proves that you're not going to be a burden to him even if he goes unemployed.

Embrace your sexuality.
You have to be comfortable with your sexuality in order to attract any man that you desire. You would be respected and loved by every person that you come in contact with if you have this level of confidence in your sexuality. So do you want male attention? This is the best way to do it!

You should know how to enjoy life.
If you constantly show a man nothing but a long face, then he's likely to leave even before he gets to know you. Prove to him that you would face all of life's challenges without a single scowl. You will be pretty popular among guys if you prove that you have the capacity to enjoy life.

Prove your intelligence.
Men are attracted to your physical beauty - but just at first! Beyond that, you'll have to prove to him that you can win him through other means. Show him how intelligent you are and he will surely go crazy about you. Don't stage debates and serious arguments, though. Know how to explain your side in the calmest manner.

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Signs a Guy Likes You Can Sometimes Go Unnoticed

When a guy catches your eye, you almost instantly ask yourself the question: "Does he like me as much as I like him?" Attraction is supposed to be a two-way street, and like most women, you could be clueless when it comes to interpreting signs a guy likes you.

So how should you go about it? How do you know a guy is into to you as much as you are into him? Let's delve on some facts and talk about the tell-tale signs a guy likes you.

Classic Signs

One of the signs that prove a guy is into you is whenever you catch him stealing glances at you. This may seem like a cliché, and pretty dull and obvious, but it's true.

Men are visual creatures. This means, they get turned on by what they see. They have this uncontrollable urge to stare at things that seem pleasant to them. Unless he has this look on his face that's more of a "what the hell is on her face?" kind of an expression, you can be sure that those constant stares he casts on you are a clear indicator that he likes you.

Acting Unnaturally

One of the other accurate signs a guy likes you is the way he acts around you. Thanks to Mother Nature, men don't act like themselves around women they find attractive. The things you see in the movies actually happen in real life. The mumbling fool who seems uneasy around you is often a dead give-away that the guy digs you.

Men have other ways of covering this up though. The defensive man who seems like he's trying to keep his distance from you could also be doing this to cover up his true feelings for you. Don't be fooled by this. Men are as insecure as women, and they dread the idea of rejection. Some men try to act nonchalant and play it off whenever a girl they like is around.

Smiles and Laughter

One of the sure-fire signs a guy likes you is their mood whenever you are around them. Men can't help but be happy being around a person they like.

You have to be careful though, it's also important that you know how to distinguish their smiles of appreciation from smiles of humor. Some guys act like jerks and pretend to be friendly and smiley toward you, when in fact they are laughing at you.

Knowing the Real from The Fake

Some guys are just friendly and happy by nature, so you don't want to automatically think that every nice guy you run into likes you. One thing you must know in distinguishing real signs from fake ones is whenever a guy acts in an unusual way.

Most of the time he gets nervous or uneasy, for fear of making a fool out of himself in front of you. If the guy you like seems a bit weird at times, especially in front of you, you could breathe easy and be assured that he likes you and he doesn't want to make a fool out of himself in front of you.

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Quick Dating Tips For Both Men and Women

Dating Tips for Men

Men are just as nervous about dates as women, they are just better at hiding it.  If you are a single guy looking to start dating and hopefully meet a potential mate, a little guidance will be in order. 
Dating is not the same social ritual that it used to be a decade ago.  It has become more of a gruelling training for marriage or whatever qualifies as a long term relationship.

Here are some points worth taking note of when going out on dates:

Get real and stay honest.  What women are looking for these days are men who can be honest with them about almost anything.  If for instance you did not have too great a time on the date and you are not likely to call her again, do not make the mistake of letting her believe that you will.  This is just considered a very distasteful behavior.

Chivalry is not dead.  While men are no longer expected to go through all courtship rituals in order to land a woman, it is still considered a good thing when you open a door for your date or offer to pick up the check for the meal.  Showing a woman that you can take care of her would earn you at least a hundred positive points and might very well earn you a second date as well.

Never talk about age or money.  When men are out with older or less successful women, it is a very bad mistake to ask about how old she is or how much money she makes.  It is just a can of worms waiting to mess up the date so better leave it alone.  However, do not be afraid to tell her about how successful you are because this fact is very important to women especially those who are looking to settle down soon. 

Ease up on the liquor.  It is never a good idea to get drunk while you are on a date, let alone a first date.  Three glasses of wine is the maximum for dinner dates and if you are taking a lady out to lunch, try to limit your consumption to just one.  If you are nervous and need not to be, try other means that do not involve lowering all of your inhibitions.

When it comes to dating, you need to have all your bases covered to ensure maximum fun, and perhaps even the prospect of a long term relationship.  

Dating Tips for Women

When it comes to dating, women are viewed to be those who fuss about their hair, makeup, shoes, and scent before going out to make themselves presentable and appealing.  If you are new to the world of dating, there are some things you have to be aware of so you do not make a fool out of yourself and actually enjoy the entire social ritual.

Useful Tips

Do not worry too much about how you look and focus more on how you feel.  It is a natural impulse for women as well as men to try and impress their dates which they take to mean spending hours in front of a mirror to land the perfect look.  Instead of being too obsessed with what color of lipstick you should dab on, it is better to just go for a natural look and let the other person see you just the way you are.

Paying your share of the check is nothing to be embarrassed about.  These are hard times and even if social convention dictates that men should always pay for the meal tab, it is a very nice gesture for women to at least offer paying for her share.  Doing this would show your date that you are classier than he had imagined and that you can take care of yourself.

Talk about yourself but not too much.  It is perfectly fine if you are a successful woman and that you are proud of your accomplishments.  However, taking over the conversation and making it all about you would be a major turn off.  The last thing you want is for your date to think that you are selfish and self absorbed.

Avoid asking loaded questions.  Inquiries such as do you ever want to get married? Or how many kids do you want to have?  Are like mine fields and you can expect an explosion all over your pretty face.  Men in general do not like to be quizzed about their future.  If your date brings it up, it is the only time you should talk about it.  Forcing the issue is definitely not very attractive.

Just enjoy the moment.  A lot of women put too much pressure on dates which is unfortunate because it is supposed to be the time when they can just relax and be themselves.  If you find yourself over thinking the ramifications of going out with somebody, just stop.  After all, it is only a date.  If it goes well, then that would be great.  If it doesn’t, you move on to someone better next time. 

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Pros and Cons of Online Dating

A lot of people are too busy with their professional lives that they hardly ever have the time to go out and experience the world outside the four corners of the office.  What a lot of men and women are looking for romance and quite a number of them have found exactly that through online dating.
Online dating has become quite the solution for people who are raring to meet other people but are just unable to go out and make time for such an activity.  If you are contemplating trying this  dating style for size, you should know all the pros and cons.

Pros
•    You only need a few minutes every day in order to connect with a lot of prospective dates.
•    There is always the option of making yourself sound a little bit more impressive than you actually are in order to attract people.  Glossing over or embellishing for effect is the language used in online dating.
•    You can choose who you want to meet or establish contact with.
•    It is very easy to select from a certain circle of people who you know have the same interests as you.
•    You can date people without having to actually leave the house.

Cons

•    95% of people you will meet online are likely to lie about themselves such as their age, jobs, and even their sexual orientation.
•    There are people online who prey on the weak or naive.  You run the risk of getting scammed or tricked into sending money or divulging personal information which can be used against you in the future.
•    Most of the connections you will make are likely to end because people who date online are always looking for something or someone better to come along. Settling is not exactly practiced by internet daters.
•    Some online dating sites are misleading especially when it comes to the services they offer.  You can expect to be ripped off at least once or twice especially by those dating sites that require payment from members.

Tips

If you really want to pursue online dating, you need to lower your expectations and just enjoy the ride.  In all, there is a very good chance that you will actually find the love of your life through one of the dating sites.  Just remember not to be too trusting so that you will not end up a victim of any ruse or scam.

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Dating Tips for Women

Dating can be a very satisfying experience for women but it can also be terrifying if they are not prepared for it. While for some, winging it usually works, others need a little more time and guidance in order to prepare for a night on the town with a gentleman.
Here are some tips on how you can enjoy and maintain a very dignified and ladylike personality while you are out on a date:
Dress Code
You can pretty much dress any way you want. However, there are certain factors you should consider such as the kind of place your date is taking you. If you are going to a movie, it is okay to go out in your jeans and shirt. On the other hand, if he is taking you to a fancy dinner at a five star restaurant, you should at least spring for a cocktail dress.
Liquor Intake
It is perfectly understandable if you want a couple of cosmopolitan with your dinner. However, it does not bode well when you get drunk and your date has to drag you out and put in a cab. Know your limit and stick to it. This rule should be observed especially for first dates.
Picking up the Check
This is one of the confusing things for dating women these days. Are you really expected to pick up the check or at least offer to split it? Here is a very simple gesture that you can do, offer to pay for what you have ordered but if the guy insists on picking up the tab for the entire meal, allow them. It is all a matter of letting the other person know that you are very much capable of taking care of yourself and that you are in it for his company and not the free hot meal that comes with it.
Public Display of Affection
If you are on a second or third date, you are most probably already comfortable with your date which means you would want to kiss and touch. Note, there is a huge difference between PDA and public lewdness. To be safe, you can just save the kissing and fondling at the end of the date when you are at each other’s place saying your goodbyes.
Dating can be a lot of fun and you should certainly have your share of good times. However, you should still remain a lady regardless of wherever you are and whoever you are with.

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